It’s important to note that I am not saying people don’t have fun in long-term monogamous relationships – of course, they do, otherwise, no one would ever enter one. However, it is a different kind of fun when you are having sex with someone constantly but casually.
You can let your hair down. You can really and fully enjoy sex. When we are in long-term relationships with one person, sex is very much put to the back of the mind. Life takes over and suddenly picking up the kids from school and working late nights takes over from our sexual desires.
In addition to this, in NSA relationships, you don’t have to deal with what I like to call, “the smelly socks of life”. This essentially means that you don’t have to deal with all the crappy day-to-day things that come with living with someone and being in a relationship. You don’t need to even engage your brain about what the other person will be having for dinner or if they need to do the laundry. It’s not your problem, and that can be a blessing in itself.
Because you are not focused on their day to day life, you can really enjoy sex with them. You are seeing the positive parts of them and that’s great. You don’t have to think about anything else but having amazing sex with them.
For women, it can give us sexual freedom and fulfillment that we have always wanted but always been judged for. Celebrate the fact that you are having great sex with someone you don’t need to be official with escort services in Seattle.
1. One of you might develop feelings for the other person.
This is definitely the biggest risk when it comes to having a ‘No Strings Attached’ relationship. It is only natural that being intimate with someone can lead to having feelings for them. You will have most likely decided to go into an NSA relationship with someone that you are deeply physically attracted to, and as this is one of the reasons why we start to fall in love with people, it could happen that you will develop feelings for this person.
This can be especially hard if your feelings towards them are unrequited. However, you can’t blame the other person if they do not reciprocate your feelings. You did decide to go into an NSA relationship with them, and you knew that there would be no further emotional relationship with them.
It can also happen the other way around. The man you are sleeping with might start feeling things towards you. If you do reciprocate his feelings, this could be really great and there might be potential for a further relationship with each other. However, if you don’t feel the same way towards this man, it can be hard for both of you.
You will need to let him down gently and remind him that you both entered into this NSA relationship with no expectations of anything other than good sex with each other. I’m sure he will just be caught up in lust and will be confusing it with love, so he shouldn’t get too hurt about you rejecting him.
2. Jealousy could enter the relationship, from either side.
Either of you or both of you could feel jealous about the other person sleeping with others. Obviously, if you start to develop feelings for the other person then you are going to start feeling jealous of them seeing or sleeping with other people.
However, even if you don’t necessarily have feelings towards the other person, you might just feel jealous of the time that they are spending with others rather than spending it pleasing you. It can be really difficult if you feel jealous because you won’t be able to tell them. You decided to enter the relationship knowing that it was not going to be monogamous, and they would be sleeping with other people. You are also allowed to sleep with others, so it doesn’t really make sense for you to seem jealous.